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Rites of Passage
11.10.05 (9:33 am)   [edit]
I'm the kind of person who's always looking forward to the next step, so graduation celebrations don't thrill me. They tend to be long affairs, with parades of people and long speeches. The party afterward is usually more interesting. Our rites of passage include religious ceremonies, such as confirmation or bar-mitzvah. Still, the completion of an academic milestone is an important step in our culture and worth a look.

The first baccalaureate ceremony took place at Oxford in 1432. Each student was required to deliver a sermon in Latin. (You thought a few speeches was bad!). Diplomas were originally made of sheepskin, rolled and tied with ribbon. Gowns were originally required academic attire (uniforms).


I know I'm not the only one who feels that the high school students we send out into the world at 18 are hardly prepared for the responsibilities of an adult. We continue to coddle them for some years beyond, as they go to school and either live in (semi-)supervised dorms or remain at home until they can make it on their own. Somehow, our society does not require the maturity that others demand by necessity at a much earlier age. Such a long period of adolescence can have its own costs, as a certain number lose their way. For example, some argue that, denied the opportunity to perform certain rites of passage, young men will be attracted to gangs as an alternative.


On the other hand, what we may be lacking now is a coherent tradition to hand on to the next generation. High school graduation ceremonies are associated with underage drinking and sexual escapades. Marriage rituals have lost meaning because of previous live-in arrangements or the fragility of the bonds themselves. The traditions around childbirth can be fragmented when the baby is born out of wedlock and the parents and relatives are still trying to find their roles. Our secular rituals and expectation fall short for the larger questions the adolescent must face on the gateway to the adult world.


A folklorist, wrote a very interesting piece about folk traditions associated with rites of passage. He explored the traditions of fiddlers in different stages of their lives. Their fiddling careers were very much in harmony with the roles they played at different stages in their lives. An art was meant to be learned when young and taken up again later after the heavy work of raising children had been accomplished.


According to him, the traditional fiddler's life follows the same course. A child learns the instrument from his parents; or he plays it as a young man and then puts it away when he settles down to raise a family. When his children are grown, the fiddle becomes part of his life once again. Jabbour writes that, although each of the fiddlers he interviewed had his own reasons for quitting, the pattern was unmistakable. By the time Jabbour had heard thirty different versions of the story from fiddlers in the Upper South, he began to realize that something bigger and more fundamental was going on. "I was not simply finding a few [older fiddlers] who still played. Rather I was learning that old age was precisely when one played the fiddle." As Mary Hufford and Marjorie Hunt summarize, "The implications are astonishing. Fiddling, clogging, carving, and needlework, then, are not dying arts just because their practitioners are elderly. They are, in fact, the things that elderly people do."
 


posted by: LarryConley (reply)
post date: 11.14.05 (5:51 am)

There was a time when a high school diploma was all you needed... it still is depending on what sort of field you go into.

In many computer fields a computer degree isn't really all that useful....

I think in many cases the two biggest things you can get get out of college.. is 1) Learning how to learn... 2) Something to help you get you food in the door.

For the record I have 2 degrees... One in electronics one in Comp Sci... yeah.. they help. but are not needed...



posted by: LynnKramer (reply)
post date: 11.15.05 (9:31 am)

I tend to agree with you on that Larry. Most kids don't know what they want to do out of high school.

88% of those who choose the liberal arts degree programs end up working in a field other that what their degree is in. They do come out with a really good brain washing though.

I am a big fan of Vocational programs. They usually are practical training useful for several fields + you work your way up the ladder getting experience as you go.

I have 3 degrees, no.1 drafting tech. no.2 industrial maintenance tech. 3. civil engineering.

I don't have any problems with recommending the US military as a place for young people to start either. They get exposed to all sorts of trades and professions, and when they do go to hight learning, they are certain of what they want to learn and therefore usually can cut through the bs better too.

I love to hire veterans. They are the best of the best usually.



posted by: LarryConley (reply)
post date: 11.15.05 (8:34 pm)

Reply to: LynnKramer

I agree on vets... (If I could get mine back (down 3 of 9 people))

and my best people too... gone for the last year and a half... oddly my boss only has a HS diploma



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